#MondaysMoments

March 7 2016

Spring begins in two weeks.  During the years our family lived in Orlando I often missed the blatant differences between seasons.  But not here in Centre County – I appreciate the landsca...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, March 7, 2016

February 29 2016

In addition to getting support for yourself through Grief Companioning, you might also want to ask the hard questions of your loved ones and find out how they want to be remembered.  Pre-plann...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, February 29, 2016

February 22 2016

We’re continuing this week with the final five tenets of companioning or caring for the bereaved.  For me, each of these tenets supports what I was trained to and do as a spiritual director.&n...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, February 22, 2016

February 15 2016

As we discussed last week, the Grief Companioning that I offer is based on the philosophy created by Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D.  For these next two weeks, I’ll share the 11 tenets of this model with ...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, February 15, 2016

February 8 2016

Last week we talked about Grief Companioning as a safe place to get support, share about your loss experiences and quiet your mind.  Grief Companioning might be new to some of you.  Alan ...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, February 8, 2016

February 1 2016

When a loved one is nearing the end of their life and you know it, anticipating losing them carries its own unique set of experiences.  You may go through a range of emotions and fears – anxie...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, February 1, 2016

January 25 2016

Another piece of the Have the Talk of a Lifetime is talking about how you want to be remembered.  Ok, I know this is the part of the conversation that starts to turn some people off.  You...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, January 25, 2016

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I wasn’t always comfortable with the concept of, “Dare! Silence.” I grew up in a house with five kids and two parents, so silence was not something that happened often. When I began to practice a s...

December 4 2023

This month’s theme is “Dare! Silence.” Silence is very important throughout our lives, especially on our grief journeys. Silence can be intimidating, and we often try to fill it when we encounter i...

November 27 2023

To close this month, please read Anne Hillman’s poem, “We Look With Uncertainty” as you notice “something new is being born in” you while making new treasured memories. We look with uncertainty be...

November 20 2023

My favorite holidays is Thanksgiving. In terms of the meanings behind other holidays, I’m all in. But I can do without their hype and commercialization. So as we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, ...

November 13 2023

As I was writing this month’s posts about our theme of “Memories Become Treasures,” the song “Landslide” by Fleetwood Mac started to play. When our youngest child went off to college, this song mad...

November 6 2023

This month’s theme is “Memories Become Treasures.” In a recent grief education and support group I was leading we talked about looking at old photographs of deceased loved ones and how those pictur...

October 30 2023

To close out this month, read these words of poet John O'Donohue: The dead are not distant or absent. They are alongside us. When we lose someone to death, we lose their physical image and presenc...