#MondaysMoments

March 19 2018

Today, we’ll continue to look at how families make it matter by adding exclamation points to the ways they care for their loved ones at death. This can be done in many ways. They can have a ceremon...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, March 19, 2018

March 12 2018

Continuing with our Make It Matter theme, when we lose a loved one, the loss often invites us to consider how to make life matter in new ways. These considerations start with how we choose to care ...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, March 12, 2018

March 5 2018

Our theme for March is Make It Matter. My husband and I attended the visitation for a family friend a few years ago. As we were greeting the family in the receiving line, I was struck by my interac...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, March 5, 2018

February 26 2018

Sharing Your Heart with others takes courage. As a parent, one of the many things our children taught me was observation is the first step in participation. Simply walking through the door of a sup...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, February 26, 2018

February 19 2018

Sharing Your Heart can feel scary or threatening – you are allowing yourself to be very vulnerable. That is exactly why we work hard to make our support gatherings safe places. We do this by follow...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, February 19, 2018

February 12 2018

Valentine’s Day is two days away and for some of you, your valentine is no longer here. This Sunday we are offering a community opportunity to Share Your Heart and honor your valentine. Please join...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, February 12, 2018

February 5 2018

Our theme for February is Share Your Heart. Deep within our hearts is a light that cannot be taken away no matter how dark things become. From a one standpoint, we can say this light comes from the...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, February 5, 2018

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November 27 2023

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November 20 2023

My favorite holidays is Thanksgiving. In terms of the meanings behind other holidays, I’m all in. But I can do without their hype and commercialization. So as we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, ...

November 13 2023

As I was writing this month’s posts about our theme of “Memories Become Treasures,” the song “Landslide” by Fleetwood Mac started to play. When our youngest child went off to college, this song mad...

November 6 2023

This month’s theme is “Memories Become Treasures.” In a recent grief education and support group I was leading we talked about looking at old photographs of deceased loved ones and how those pictur...

October 30 2023

To close out this month, read these words of poet John O'Donohue: The dead are not distant or absent. They are alongside us. When we lose someone to death, we lose their physical image and presenc...