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November 30 2015

We are continuing our discussion of the 4-3-2-1 on Hope, Healing and Wholeness with a discussion of the 2 Intentions.  The first intention is to heal, grow and be transformed.  This is ...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, November 30, 2015

November 23 2015

As we continue our discussion on the 4-3-2-1 on Hope, Healing and Wholeness, we move now to the 2 Intentions.  When you are grieving a loss, it is important to set intentions for what you wa...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, November 23, 2015

November 16 2015

As I’ve described over the last four weeks, the 4-3-2-1 on Hope, Healing and Wholeness begins with the 4 C’s.  Next we have the 3 Skills.  I shared a little about these in June and July...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, November 16, 2015

November 9 2015

  The fourth and final practice of the 4 C’s is Caring.  Caring is the compassionate service of self and others.  When we care for ourselves we can then take our best self out int...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, November 9, 2015

November 2 2015

The third practice of the 4 C’s is Community.  Community is the opportunity to connect to your hidden wholeness by sharing yourself with others and they in turn sharing themselves with you.&nb...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, November 2, 2015

October 26 2015

                          The second practice of the 4 C’s is Creativity...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, October 26, 2015

October 19 2015

The first practice of the 4 C’s is Centeredness. Centeredness is about going within and connecting to that hidden wholeness within you and all things. Some people do this through meditation, othe...
By Jackie Hook
Monday, October 19, 2015

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November 20 2023

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November 13 2023

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October 30 2023

To close out this month, read these words of poet John O'Donohue: The dead are not distant or absent. They are alongside us. When we lose someone to death, we lose their physical image and presenc...