#MondaysMoments
June 20 2022
Last week we began to embrace the journey by beginning to explore our grief with the question, what really matters? This week we’ll explore more by carrying a light with us. One of my spiritual dir...
Monday, June 20, 2022
June 13 2022
As we continue our discussion of “Embrace the Journey,” let’s explore ways to help us through the wilderness of grief. A helpful place to start is with the word explore. According to www.britannica...
Monday, June 13, 2022
June 6 2022
This month our theme is “Embrace the Journey.” Embracing the grief journey might feel counterintuitive. Grief is painful and why would we want to embrace it? As Robert Frost once wrote, “The best...
Monday, June 6, 2022
May 30 2022
I wish you a Memorial Day full of meaningful moments and comforting memories. As George Eliot said, “Our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them.”
Monday, May 30, 2022
May 23 2022
When I think about rebirth after loss, this David Whyte poem comes to my mind:
When your eyes are tired
the world is tired also.
When your vision has gone,
no part of the world can find you.
Tim...
Monday, May 23, 2022
May 16 2022
Just as last week I described my rebirths after loss, I also have the privilege of carrying with me the stories of many others’ rebirths. For example, one widow who realized for the first time that...
Monday, May 16, 2022
May 9 2022
As we talk more about “Rebirth after Loss,” I want to share the rebirths my husband and I experienced during and after our six pregnancy losses. At one point on our journey, we were asked to share ...
Monday, May 9, 2022
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December 11 2023
I wasn’t always comfortable with the concept of, “Dare! Silence.” I grew up in a house with five kids and two parents, so silence was not something that happened often. When I began to practice a s...
December 4 2023
This month’s theme is “Dare! Silence.” Silence is very important throughout our lives, especially on our grief journeys. Silence can be intimidating, and we often try to fill it when we encounter i...
November 27 2023
To close this month, please read Anne Hillman’s poem, “We Look With Uncertainty” as you notice “something new is being born in” you while making new treasured memories.
We look with uncertainty
be...
November 20 2023
My favorite holidays is Thanksgiving. In terms of the meanings behind other holidays, I’m all in. But I can do without their hype and commercialization. So as we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, ...
November 13 2023
As I was writing this month’s posts about our theme of “Memories Become Treasures,” the song “Landslide” by Fleetwood Mac started to play. When our youngest child went off to college, this song mad...
November 6 2023
This month’s theme is “Memories Become Treasures.” In a recent grief education and support group I was leading we talked about looking at old photographs of deceased loved ones and how those pictur...
October 30 2023
To close out this month, read these words of poet John O'Donohue:
The dead are not distant or absent. They are alongside us. When we lose someone to death, we lose their physical image and presenc...
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